Are you wasting nights wondering if your relationship has faltered on the rocks, holding your stomach each time he speaks fearing those two words ‘it is over’? Completly understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that imaginary fairy bubble of you and him living blissfully until death parts you.
Sadly the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot numb yourself forever. Here are some signs husband is not in love.
1) Time is one among many obvious signs of a cheating husband/boyfriend. Where he spends his time shows a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t knock at your door anymore, doesn’t remember that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hurried’ becomes his frequent by word, then you have a serious predicament. If he is the thoughtful type or is too shy to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long period but don’t be amazed though if he leaves in haste.It may not be new work dedication but maybe, just maybe, a new love interest is taking your time.
2)Lack of communication is another of the clear signs husband is not in love. A healthy relationship is founded on good communication. So if his calls are as infrequent as a blue moon and he either doesn’t call you back or does so infrequently then he could be losing interest in you and you could be headed for a break up. Leaving messages would not take to much from him would it?. If communication has expired or is failing this is one of the loud signs of a cheating husband/boyfriend and if you do not turn the tide, you’re done for!
3) Funds no longer flow in your direction.As soon as the money stops coming in, it’s time to change course. I know…your not interested in his money. Well, if that helps you rest at night, but if he is not spending some of his money on you, he is spending it on someone else. Unless of course he is tight fisted who has never, even in the exhilarating early days, spent any money on you. And that is a whole other problem. We use our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not spending money on you then what does it say about how he thinks about you.
4) He has new habits. A symptom of a recent sway in his life. Unexpectedly he loves the color pink for his shirts and ties although he in the past thought it was too girlie. He now takes hours at the mirror and has changed his showering frequency, this is one among many signs of a cheating husband/boyfriend. Just out of interest, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for his birthday? Don’t worry girl, a new love interest is running his clothing tastes.
5) He is playing wit games. You have blowouts over the littlest things and lately anything seems to lead to a blow out, a great omen of a breakup. You tread on egg shells around him and any questions or comments become an argument. He is grumpy and says nasty things! Take heed, he is shifting blame to cover his tracks.
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