If you want to be good at flirting, its extremely important that you can accurately read body-language. Without knowing it, women send out subtle signals to let you know whether they want more or whether they want you to back down. Here are the most common indicators of interest – signals that tell you shes interested.
1. Alignment of Her Body:
This factor isnt all that subtle and it doesnt involve just a detail but her entire body. Its about he whole body, in relation to yours. Crossed legs, crossed arms and a body alignment turned away from you mean that she wants you to back off. When shes all closed up like this, dont even thing of keeping at it and trying to win her over. If, on the other hand, she aligns her body with yours, that is a good indicator that shes enjoying your company. Even before youre actually flirting with her, you can tell a girl has noticed you and is interested if shes pointing a foot in your direction. This foot-pointing is something everyone does unconscioulsy. If you pay attention to it, you might notice yourself doing the same thing from time to time.
Generall speaking, the more open and directed towards you her body is, the higher her level of interest.
2. Matching and Mirroring:
If you notice a girl copying your movements and posture, thats a very strong indicator of interest. Here are some matching and mirroring examples: You lean forward, she leans forward. You adjust your sleeve, she adjusts hers. You lean your elbows on the table, she does the same. You get the idea.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) teaches that you can actually create a deeper connection with someone by consciously mirroring them for a while, until you can take the lead and they start following.
3. Fidgeting (in Certain Cases):
If she fidgets with her hair, thats almost always a sign that shes into you (at least a little bit). Another one is if she subtly starts stroking her arm or her neck, although it can also be an indicator of general nervousness.
When it comes to fidgeting, pay attention to whether shes distracting herself from you or not. If shes doing some kind of fidgeting, but maintains eye-contact, thats a positive sign.
4. Surrogate Touching:
Surrogate touching is something most people have no clue about, but its a strong and interesting sign. If she touches any object that belongs to you or that she associates with you, you can almost think of it as touching you through the object you own.
5. Looking Down:
This is the most subtle of the bunch. When two people look into each others eyes, it becomes unbearable pretty quickly, unless theyre already very intimate. It usually only takes a second or two before eye-contact is broken. If she looks away sideways, shes not interested. If she looks away downwards, shes interested.
Of course, there can always be exceptions to the rule, but if you pay attention, youll find this particular cue to be very telling.
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